We had a family wedding this month. I painted and one of my brothers sang with his wife.
The bride and I lived together and became close in past years. I was very happy for her.
It had been raining in the tri-state area for a month. She prepared for it to pour, but the gods smiled on us and the sun beamed.
The groomsmen had a basket full of Japanese parasols. The men opened them and handed one to each woman, to shield our eyes and skin. More than one hundred of us walked into the courtyard. It was lovely to see them dotting the landscape, fluttering among the crowd. They were made of wood, paper, and string:
The couple asked me to be the artist for their ketubah:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ketubah
In ancient times, it wasn't an artwork, but a sort of pre-nup contract.
This time, it was a set of vows composed by the groom. Well-written and romantic.
One of my favorite artists (thanks Miss S.!) showed me a wonderful one while I was preparing:
www.processrecess.com/index.php?uid=E804AA
I whispered the words a little, so that I'd remember precisely what to do with my strokes.
Mine didn't contain Hebrew. I wish it had; that would have been a pleasure to make as well.
I painted one in advance of the wedding day. It didn't look right to me.
I polled my sister and other people, then decided to redo it.
Chris came to the art store with me in a spectacular lightening storm.
I opened my window to record a few seconds. You can hear the thunder and see the wind turn the tree into a sea anemone:
We got soaked in order to purchase more fine French paper.
I only feel right giving a piece of my art if it's tight, if you know what I mean. It should be a beauty to me, if it's a gift from my heart.
The calligraphy took many hours. I worked through six pens. They start sharp and their delicate tips wear down.
I chose a salmon color after loads of experimentation. I think the hue reminds people of the feeling of love. Here it is in progress:

Traditional text is black. I didn't even want them to sign in black. Anything too dark took away from the airy feel. I found a tree-bark colored brown for the bride, groom, witnesses, and officiant to sign with.
I arrived two hours before the ceremony, because they needed me there early. First he breezed by, then she did, like the white rabbit and Alice in Wonderland, but neither saw the other.
All you saw was a blur pass by. I waited by my newest baby, the ketubah.
A man who seemed to be the coordinator scooped up the gold frame, saying "This is marvelous; it needs to be displayed!" which was good to hear. He gingerly placed it on an easel. My brother said he looked like Poppy from Seinfeld. Guests arrived and oooed and aahed at it, which made me happy.
The ceremony featured the breaking of the glass, and a great deal of music, such as Handel's water music, among other traditions.
At the reception, my parents did an incredible Cha-Cha number. If you're unfamiliar with the latin dance:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISmOGkAniZ4
Everyone applauded at the end of the impromptu performance.
The centerpieces were Japanese bonsai trees. I have to ask my brother if he adopted one; he was admiring it the whole time.
My dog, a Dalmatian named Siren, kept watch. She loves the bride too.
More ketubah pictures to come.
Here's wishing you two a wonderful life together.
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